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How to Get a Guy to Notice You

That one guy that you’re always caught staring at, the one who you seem to fall in love with everyday, but he never notices! It can be frustrating to be crazy in love with someone who has never seen you more than just in the halls. If you need that special guy to notice you, there are easy ways to get it. You don’t need to spend a lot of money on makeup and a new wardrobe to get noticed. Be yourself, don’t look desperate and he will notice you.

What to do


Love yourself. A guy is much more likely to notice a girl who loves who she is and whose proud of herself and the way she carries herself. If you look like you’re already happy with yourself and your life, then the guy will want to be a very large part of it. If you seem desperate to find a guy to make you feel whole, you’ll be much less likely to attract any man that comes your way.

  • Learn to love being yourself. Not meeting someone else’s standards of beauty, or of how a woman should act.
  • Love whatever you do, whether it’s talking to friends or being in class. A guy will be able to tell if you’re content with living your life, and will want to join in.


Love your looks. Though you may feel like it’s impossible to really love the way you look, it’s easier than you think. Find three aspects of your looks that you truly adore and focus on emphasizing those when you get dressed. If you’re unhappy with your figure, you can exercise to build muscle and burn fat; this will also make you feel more energetic and positive. Do whatever you have to do to truly love the way you look, and any man will be sure to follow.

  • You don’t need to get a wardrobe makeover to feel good about how you look in your clothes — just wearing a few key items that you love can make you look and feel good no matter what happens.
  • You don’t need to wear three or four layers of make-up, either. Just wear whatever makes you feel pretty while staying comfortable, but try to make it natural, (If that’s what your looking for).
  • Keeping up good dental and bodily hygiene by showering daily, washing your hair as often as you need to, and brushing and flossing will also make you feel good about your fresh looks.
  • Don’t try to look like everyone else. If you have gorgeous curly/frizzy hair or cute but small boobs, don’t try to hide your unique features or emphasize what you don’t have, just be true to yourself!
  • Don’t keep checking your reflection in a mirror or window whenever you’re out. This will make guys think that you’re very insecure about your looks. So, save the scrutiny for the ladies’ room.

On a date

Have fun wherever you go to have a good time. A guy will be much more likely to notice you if you just look like you’re having a blast. Though it may be hard to look like you’re ballin’ if you’re taking a math test or sitting in a waiting room at the dentist’s, you should always stay positive. Smile whenever and where-ever you can, and laugh often.

  • If a guy sees you out with girlfriends, you’ll look much more appealing if you’re laughing, giggling, and just looking like you’re having an awesome time.
  • Don’t spend all of your time looking around the room for someone better to talk to or checking your phone — if you look like you don’t want to be there, a guy will take the hint, and leave you alone, obviously if you look like you don’t want to talk.


Never look desperate for attention. It’s great to catch the guy’s eye from time to time and to go back to laughing with your friends. It’s not-so-great to stare at the guy, smile too eagerly, and step away from your friends as you wait for him to approach you. Don’t apply your makeup in public, fidget with your outfit, or keep walking past the guy 100 times hoping he’ll just walk over to you. This will certainly make him notice you — but not in the boyfriend type of way.

  • If he doesn’t notice you right away, don’t force it by awkwardly tapping him or winking at him. This will only push him away.

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